Some day, I'm going to write a book. The title will be,
IF I get to heaven, my clothes will smell like smoke. I hope to expound upon the
dichotomy of Christianity that says, on the one hand, I am totally depraved and on the other hand, I am perfect.
In 1 Corinthians 6, Paul lists some bad stuff that his readers had done. Then he says, that they
were bad people, but now are not. Does that mean that they stopped sinning? I don't think so.
Hebrews 10 says that "if we keep on sinning" we are in danger of hell. What does it mean to keep on sinning? How do we become new creations? How do we act as sanctified Christians?
I think the difference is that we struggle with sin. People who do not know Christ accept sinful ways as okay. They "keep on sinning" because they think their choices are okay. Christians still sin, but they regret it. Is that hypocritical? I don't think so. Its human nature to sin. Its God's will for us to feel contrition and seek forgiveness.
Hmmm... So, what am I saying? Anyone who feels guilty about bad things they do is a Christian? Only people who can do bad things with no remorse are on the highway to hell? That can't be true because the vast majority of people feel bad about things they do from time to time. If you ask the average person if they are good or bad, they will say that they are "mostly good." They realize that they do bad things, but they do good things at least 51% of the time so its okay. That may be true. It may be that most people are mostly good (from a worldly standpoint) and feel bad about things they do wrong. So does that mean that most people are going to heaven?
Maybe its not so much making individual choices or even repetitive choices and not regretting them that is important. What does make the difference is making life choices and not regretting them. So, adultery is not the unforgivable sin, but living with someone who you are not married to, sleeping with them and refusing to get married or acknowledge that what you are doing is wrong, is. This type of behavior is what indicates that a heart is hard and closed to God's call.
Getting drunk may not put one on the road to
perdition. Being an alcoholic may not either if one fights against the urges. Its giving in to the lifestyle or not feeling Godly remorse that is damning.
That is why the bible talks about how Christians need to warn other Christians who are caught up in sin. We should not judge people for the sins they commit individually. We should cast a discerning eye on people's lifestyles and warn them if their persistent behavior is potentially destructive. It is the persistent nature of sin that is damning.
Now, I am not saying that simply fighting against evil is enough to keep someone out of hell. It is only faith in Jesus Christ as savior that gives a person the key to the pearly gates. What I am saying is that
every person struggles with sin. We have all gone astray. We all fall short of the goal of perfection. This struggle does not disqualify a person from heaven or mean that Christians are phony. It simply proves that we need a savior and shows how great God is to help us.